To letting things and people go

If you catch me murmuring to myself

There are three possibilities

1. I might be catching the beats and singing out loud a random song that had the luck of getting stuck inside my mind for a brief period of time.

2. I might be playing out a scenario that happened in my life and giving different endings to it with respect to slight circumstancial changes.

3. I might be reciting out loud some thought or idea I had in my mind and forming a write-up in my head instead of literally writing it down

Dont worry. I am not building up a dramatic backstory but spare a few minutes of your time and hear me out

I had a few thoughts or realisations today.

This is me telling you that if you saw me murmuring to myself today the option you have to go along with is the third one.

(Yes I was murmuring to myself when i was in a room full of people because for me if I am able to find a calm state of mind and think while among a loud crowd it is a sign of me evolving.)

Going back to the build up.

You know how we are often asked to let things go?

But instead what if we learn to let people go?.

What if we let the version of certain people we met and played "little but not so happy part" in your life. People who might have scarred you in one way or another. People who might not deserve to even be a thought on a random day which causes panic.

Instead of letting things that happened go?Why can't we just let the version of these people we got acquainted with go?

If we dont feel the burden of what happened is solely on us and constantly think of how ways on how YOU could have prevented or changed it. Instead think of how they also had such a chance.

Equal responsibilties of things happened is not about the bad things happened. It includes saving or preventing things that happened.

We know that a person will not show the same version of oneself to everyone that he or she crosses paths with in their life.

If they wanted go stay in our life, you would have seen the efforts.

Eventhough the resposibilities of events occurred or of the words that were thrown against each other are split equally, the so called version of that person you met dont deserve even a slight space in your memory because of the effect it had on your peace.

Learn to let the people go and you will notice that you are also letting the things happened go in the process.

You know how we clear out the photo gallery of our phone.

We prefer our storage to be filled with good memories. Use the same theory on yourself too!

This is one thing I am proud to have a little knowledge of.

Love,

Devu